Do you see any common attributes and behavior in popular people? What do J.F. Kennedy (American President) and Winston Churchill (British Prime Minister) have in common? Well, all popular people are a crowd puller. J.F. Kennedy and Winston Churchill both had won the hearts of people.
In all our life, we have to deal with a lot of people and we also have to win their hearts. We have to win the heart of our boss and colleagues, we have to win the heart of our spouse and kids, we have to win the heart of our neighbor, we have to win the heart of the people we meet every day in the pub. Whether you want to perform better in your public life or have a good personal life, you must have the ability to win people’s heart.
So, how do we deal with people in a better way? How do we win their hearts?
Well, the truth is it is impossible to win the heart of all people. Despite your all efforts to please, some people may never be satisfied with you, thus you will be unable to win their hearts. It is not only difficult to please all people, some people are also difficult to please. Winning the hearts of the people we are talking here is related to winning people’s heart in general.
First and foremost, you need to have a pleasing personality. If you do not have a good personality, you will never impress people. If you cannot impress people, how could you win their hearts? Pleasing personality includes well dressed, smiling face, polite and loving behavior etc. People easily connect with people who have a pleasing personality. When you have a pleasing personality, you will invoke feel-good attitude in other people. This will help you to win their hearts.
Secondly, you also need to be a better communicator. If you don’t communicate well, you cannot win people’s hearts. When you can communicate well, you also have the ability to influence people.
Thirdly, you need to have a good sense of humor. Now, who does not love humor? A good sense of humor will never fail to charm people. People like listening to people who are funny and humorous. People like meeting people who have to ability to put a smile on another face. No one likes the serious face.